Blogs 2023

  • Communication or Lack of?

    I am finding that people are so quick to quit a relationship these days. This is not a rule, but I do find that many of my friends tend to be fast at quitting instead of working things out. And I find this very sad. I believe that sometimes we have no choice in leaving a relationship. But what happened to communication before leaving? I am seeing a lack of communication these days. Because of online dating and the world we are becoming, people can be more fake or misrepresent who they truly are. This, in turn, creates a lot of fakeness and encourages people to not communicate with each…

  • Love Means Liking at Your Worst

    Love does mean liking the other person even if they are at their worst. This means when they are down and out of luck when they are themselves, they take away all the filters or makeup that creates a better version of themselves. Love means they are there if the person is going through a sad moment or when they are angry. Love means sharing our true selves with each other and liking each moment. Love means having the patience to understand and caring enough to communicate when things are wrong. Yes, there will be challenging moments. Yes, there will be times that you will not like certain things with…

  • One More Book Done

    I love when I have finished a book. It makes me feel so accomplished that one more story comes from me. I love writing. It makes me feel good when I have another book finished. I do not know what it is, but I love sharing my work with the world, which means finishing books. I am sure we all have something that we love to do and feel accomplished in doing. For me, it is in my writing. I love stories, incredibly romantic stories. When a man and woman meet, how they react and their love story. Sometimes they find each other in the worst of situations and have…

  • Love Grows

    I am in the middle of writing a new book and I love writing the parts where the person has realized how much they love the person they are with. Sometimes in life we are around the right person yet we do not see it. Or even at times we think this person is this or that, we do not know the potential and the love is hidden deep inside us. Not everyone can be up front and know that they have found their person right away. Sometimes it takes time to realize who we have around us. And sometimes we become friends and that shared love grows between two…

  • Is Love Gone?

    I was watching a clip of someone speaking, and they said that nowadays, with how people look at relationships, that love seems almost gone from relationships. I have to disagree with this. I think people fail to understand the differences between love and lust and do not understand relationships. Yes, we all have standards. That is a normal part of knowing what we want and what would fit us best. But love does not go by rules and regulations. Love comes and grows, and that small connection turns into a bigger one. I think people need to realize that this world may revolve around money and sex, but we do…

  • Flowers

    The very essential part of spring is the flowers. I do love seeing the flowers bloom everywhere I go. My favourites are daisies, but I also love lilac and tulips. All flowers are great to see. But I am more partial to those we see that are not the usual flowers we see. And when it comes to giving me flowers, I like the person to think outside of the box. Do not give me roses or carnations, something you see everywhere. I much prefer something different or one of my favourites.  Flowers can be very romantic as well. If your partner gives you something you like, it can show…

  • Easter

    Easter is coming, and even though it is not seen as the most romantic holiday, it can be a holiday to share with family, friends, and your partner. Starting some spring activities, such as picnics and walks outside, can be fun. Some of these activities can be romantic, such as a picnic in the park. Easter is also full of colour. This means taking out our summer and spring clothes and wearing more colours. Easter is also the time for flowers, and what is not more fun than to get some flowers from a loved one. And we cannot forget the chocolate. My favourite is dark chocolate, especially coffee beans…

  • Celebrate What We Have

    I was watching something interesting about how we perceive women and men. Today, it spoke about relationships and how much people fall prey to not having long-lasting good relationships. I find it very interesting today that people can bounce from one person to the next, always thinking that maybe there is something better, perhaps I can find something more. We live in a world of looking at the neighbor’s and wanting what they have instead of enjoying what we do have. You can never be truly happy if you are always looking for the next new thing or wanting more. We must start looking at what we have and be…

  • Dance

    Does it ever happen to you that you feel like dancing? It happens to me sometimes, the music can move you, and all you can do is dance and sing to the melody. Maybe this is not something romantic or something I should write about. Somehow, I feel like writing about dancing. However, it can relate to a person’s attitude. And attitude can relate to attractiveness. When a person is relaxed and dances, they have a fun kind of attitude, and this can bring out the more romantic side of a person. We see it all the time in movies when two people are dancing. How romantic it can be. …

  • Spring in Coming

    Spring is just around the corner, making me think of what is coming. The flowers and warmer weather, to surprise snowfalls and rain. What can I say? Spring is the season for new, the season for the cold to go and to bring forth a new generation of flowers and animals. It is where people start new relationships or move into sturdier relationships. It is where weddings are planned, and pregnancies or births are held. It is a good season for all that is new. It is not my favorite season, but it can have benefits. It is time you can go out more because the weather is not so…