Have you ever really looked at how love works and how powerful love can be? Love is the strongest unit on earth. This is how I see it anyway. Many people may think I’m wrong about it, but I do believe that love is the most powerful thing on earth. Why do I see it this way? Well, love can cause wars and love can stop wars. True love is what can motivate a person to move mountains or travel to the ends of the world. True love allows a person to see their faults and want to change to be a better person. So how can true love not…

Love is a funny thing and I have seen it make people do some of the craziest things. sometimes the behavior may look so ridiculous to us who are not in love, but when in love it is sweet and wonderful behavior. Love brings out sometimes the best that a person has and this can relate to how they behave. Such as a man in love may start doing things for his partner that others may find foolish or weird, but for the two people, it is familiar and wonderful. We should never look at it as it being strange but look at it from a perspective of how wonderful…

This is for me a hard question because I like to think that both are important for love and relationships. Yes, friendship is needed because this is where two people come together to share things about themselves and their lives. This is where trust begins to build between two people. And yes friendship, real friendship is important with love and relationships. But I am a romance writer and love romance, so I see the value in having romance in life. But this concept differs for each person. Some people may think flowers and chocolates, presents and stuff are romance. Some may think romance is when the other person goes out…

Love is a funny thing because I have seen love start from the beginning and it grows over time. Sometimes it can be that two people start as friends and grow into loving each other. Sometimes an arranged marriage can turn into a love match. So I do believe that love can be learned over time. Because for me love is something that can grow. To me, love is like something that a person can find or a person can learn over time. It is both, a quick process or a slow process, but every person can find it and learn how to be in love. True love can be…

Of course, I would believe love is real, but for the purpose to prove it, I will put my bias nature aside and look at it from a different perspective. Love can be hard to see and therefore can be easily believed to not be real. Also, lust and attraction can fool people to see love when there is no love. Love is an emotion that people use to determine a deep connection and care for another fellow human. And because this is something impossible to measure, a person could believe that it does not exist. But on the other hand, can any emotion be truly measured? Emotions are not…

Mending your heart can be one of the hardest things that a person does for themselves. But it is necessary so that resentment and hatred do not take root inside your heart. One thing that I have learned about mending a heart is that you must learn to love yourself to be able to truly move on and heal from your heartbreak. In my writing, I find it fun to play around with characters and their hearts. How a story can start with a person having a broken heart, yet find their way in mending it. Sometimes it can take meeting the right person to help the person mend their…

Often when writing, my character starts with heartbreak in some form or fashion. As I mentioned in my last blog, heartbreak is very much a part of love because we can fall in love with a person who is not meant for us. But heartbreak can extend to more than just falling for someone who is not meant for us, it can just be broken because of circumstances of life. Take my newest novel, one of the main characters, the king, suffered from a heartbreak, which turned him into a tyrant as a king. The novel is written with this heartbreak in the forefront. It is the cause for the…

In the midst of heartbreak, we can find solace in the aftermath of the heartbreak. You may hurt at first, but in the end, you can see it as a benefit to yourself to have gotten through such heartbreak. Love and heartbreak go hand in hand. Not all love stories turn into heartbreak, but that without pushing past the fear of heartbreak can you find love. One thing I do know is giving your love away can be hard, giving your heart even harder. But one thing that I have learned through my experiences is that heartbreak is always a possible outcome of love. But life without love is a…

I have to apologize for skipping my blog posting on Sunday. I had to spend my day at a hospital, but all is well now. As I was there for hours, it did make me think of how much hustle goes on at a hospital that people may not inquire to see what kind of good can come from a place like this. And yes it was a long and tiresome journey, it was also an eye-opener on certain factors in life. Take an older couple that I watched as I waited on my turn, how they were in for just one person but they stayed together and leaned on…

In my previous blog I vaguely mentioned how love has sort of changed with technology, but the root of love is still the same. What has changed is not the love itself but how we approach finding love. I do believe this is something worth knowing. Technology has allowed us access to more people, which allows us to find many people to find love with. In many ways, this is good because we can meet more people and have a better sense of what it is we want in our partner. However, there is a drawback, such as with more access to people it is harder to actually find love,…