Something that many people do is quit on the idea of love. Well, I am not that way. I do believe that everyone deserves and can have true love in their life. However, sometimes a person needs to see it for what it is. Sometimes we get so wrapped up in lust that we forget what love actually is. Lust can play a huge role in deceiving us of our feelings. So the first thing we need to see and remember is lust. We need to recognize lust and how it can play a huge role in how we approach a person. Lust can be so convincing to being the…

The second ingredient for true romance is importance. Now, what does that mean? Well for me it means the level of importance that one person has in their partner’s mind. this level of importance encourages certain kinds of behaviors which in turn can relate to romance. How much your partner sees value with you in their lives, the more the value the more they will do things without thinking about them. Because true romance is not in the planned events, it is in the small natural behaviors that we do for each other. That is true love and romance. Yes, planned events can be fun, but that can be done…

I find there are two main ingredients that a person wants to invoke romance. Yes, many people will disagree with me here and say passion is the only ingredient, but I see romance as more than just a passion that can be brought out by lust. Some things are only brought out by loving another, which brings out the romance within a person. Buying chocolates and flowers is nice and romantic, but true romance is much more than how much you spend or how much planning is involved in it. It is all about a feeling that you convey to your partner and that feeling can be brought out by…

What is the most romantic thing someone has done for you? I can come up with many ideas of what would be romantic, but everyone has their own ideas as to what they see as romantic. Some it is in thoughtful gifts, others in what their partner does for them. However, we all have our definition of what is romantic. But sometimes we see things and one can only say it is romantic. Such as when a guy goes out of his way to do something incredible for his girl or when he treats her like a princess, this cannot be seen as anything other than romantic. Yes sometimes we…

“You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” Dr. Seuss This quote is an interesting one. To think that love would make you not want to sleep, well maybe it could? But this is how I see this. Love makes you want to spend time with that person that you love. And for me, love tends to invade my dreams. So why would I not wish to sleep and keep dreaming of that special someone? But I can see how for some, if they had a horrible time in their life and then suddenly they find love and their life…

I know this has nothing to do with love, but I like to think that if you have love in your life you are joyful. But for those who do not see love or have that special someone in their life, I find that being joyful can shine through and bring out the best of a person, which can create a pathway to finding your love. But what is being joyful? Does everyone have their own way of seeing joyfulness? I know that I do. Joyful means to me being happy just because you can. To see the little things in life that can bring joy for you. It does…

Many people have their own ideas of languages in love. There is even a book that explains what are and how love languages work. I like to read many different books about love because books can be useful tools for writing. One book about the love languages that I read, went and showed how love can be shown in five different ways between two people. This concept is interesting and useful in writing because when writing a story, I want to make the interactions between my characters to be realistic. So when two people in my novels come together, they show how they love each other in certain ways, such…

True love, in my opinion, cannot die. What dies is lust. People have trouble seeing the difference between the two, but I can see the difference. Lust will die, but love will not. However, you can love someone yet not be with them. This also people do not realize. Because sometimes you fall in love with a person who is not for you or is not ready for you. This does not mean you do not love them, it just means you love them enough to let them go and move on with your life. As human beings, we have the capability to love more than one person. And sometimes…

I do believe when love exists, it changes things. When you love another person sometimes something important to you may become less important and something that never was important becomes important. Such as someone who is completely against marriage can change their mind if they truly become in love with another because they may want to be with the other. Love can change many things around us and within us, can make us into better people. I do believe that love can create miracles and urge people to be better people. However, lust does the opposite, lust is what creates wars and can make people do evil things, such as…