• Can love die?

    True love, in my opinion, cannot die. What dies is lust. People have trouble seeing the difference between the two, but I can see the difference. Lust will die, but love will not. However, you can love someone yet not be with them. This also people do not realize. Because sometimes you fall in love with a person who is not for you or is not ready for you. This does not mean you do not love them, it just means you love them enough to let them go and move on with your life. As human beings, we have the capability to love more than one person. And sometimes…

  • Love can change everything

    I do believe when love exists, it changes things. When you love another person sometimes something important to you may become less important and something that never was important becomes important. Such as someone who is completely against marriage can change their mind if they truly become in love with another because they may want to be with the other. Love can change many things around us and within us, can make us into better people. I do believe that love can create miracles and urge people to be better people. However, lust does the opposite, lust is what creates wars and can make people do evil things, such as…

  • Love’s power

    Have you ever really looked at how love works and how powerful love can be? Love is the strongest unit on earth. This is how I see it anyway. Many people may think I’m wrong about it, but I do believe that love is the most powerful thing on earth. Why do I see it this way? Well, love can cause wars and love can stop wars. True love is what can motivate a person to move mountains or travel to the ends of the world. True love allows a person to see their faults and want to change to be a better person. So how can true love not…

  • Ridiculous behavior when in love

    Love is a funny thing and I have seen it make people do some of the craziest things. sometimes the behavior may look so ridiculous to us who are not in love, but when in love it is sweet and wonderful behavior. Love brings out sometimes the best that a person has and this can relate to how they behave. Such as a man in love may start doing things for his partner that others may find foolish or weird, but for the two people, it is familiar and wonderful. We should never look at it as it being strange but look at it from a perspective of how wonderful…

  • What matters most friendship or romance?

    This is for me a hard question because I like to think that both are important for love and relationships. Yes, friendship is needed because this is where two people come together to share things about themselves and their lives. This is where trust begins to build between two people. And yes friendship, real friendship is important with love and relationships. But I am a romance writer and love romance, so I see the value in having romance in life. But this concept differs for each person. Some people may think flowers and chocolates, presents and stuff are romance. Some may think romance is when the other person goes out…

  • Can love grow over time?

    Love is a funny thing because I have seen love start from the beginning and it grows over time. Sometimes it can be that two people start as friends and grow into loving each other. Sometimes an arranged marriage can turn into a love match. So I do believe that love can be learned over time. Because for me love is something that can grow. To me, love is like something that a person can find or a person can learn over time. It is both, a quick process or a slow process, but every person can find it and learn how to be in love. True love can be…

  • Is love real?

    Of course, I would believe love is real, but for the purpose to prove it, I will put my bias nature aside and look at it from a different perspective. Love can be hard to see and therefore can be easily believed to not be real. Also, lust and attraction can fool people to see love when there is no love. Love is an emotion that people use to determine a deep connection and care for another fellow human. And because this is something impossible to measure, a person could believe that it does not exist. But on the other hand, can any emotion be truly measured? Emotions are not…

  • Mending a heart

    Mending your heart can be one of the hardest things that a person does for themselves. But it is necessary so that resentment and hatred do not take root inside your heart. One thing that I have learned about mending a heart is that you must learn to love yourself to be able to truly move on and heal from your heartbreak. In my writing, I find it fun to play around with characters and their hearts. How a story can start with a person having a broken heart, yet find their way in mending it. Sometimes it can take meeting the right person to help the person mend their…

  • When your love story starts with heartbreak

    Often when writing, my character starts with heartbreak in some form or fashion. As I mentioned in my last blog, heartbreak is very much a part of love because we can fall in love with a person who is not meant for us. But heartbreak can extend to more than just falling for someone who is not meant for us, it can just be broken because of circumstances of life. Take my newest novel, one of the main characters, the king, suffered from a heartbreak, which turned him into a tyrant as a king. The novel is written with this heartbreak in the forefront. It is the cause for the…

  • Love and heartbreak

    In the midst of heartbreak, we can find solace in the aftermath of the heartbreak. You may hurt at first, but in the end, you can see it as a benefit to yourself to have gotten through such heartbreak. Love and heartbreak go hand in hand. Not all love stories turn into heartbreak, but that without pushing past the fear of heartbreak can you find love. One thing I do know is giving your love away can be hard, giving your heart even harder. But one thing that I have learned through my experiences is that heartbreak is always a possible outcome of love. But life without love is a…