• Christmas Food

    How much I love the smells and tastes of the season. Christmas food from goodies to cooked meals to my mother’s homemade apple pie. I just love it. The smells of spices and chocolate mint, what a lovely smell. I love baking. I love when you walk into a home, and you can smell the baked goods so well that you can almost taste it in the air. Now that’s Christmas.  All these tastes and smells can encourage a writer like me. I can imagine a scene playing out in my head and how the smells or tasting of the food may play in the character’s mood and emotions. It…

  • Christmas songs

    We all have our favourites. There is no comparing. I won’t write how this or that song is the best for all Christmas songs are great in their own way. Even I have my favourites, but songs reflect who we are, so there is no right or wrong in what we like or don’t when it comes to songs. Whether you are a rock and roll or a country song fan, there are Christmas songs in every genre for every person. That is why I love Christmas music. I could listen to it all year long, but once the first of December hits, it’s Christmas at my house every day…

  • Christmas movies

    Yes, I am a Christmas fool when it comes to all the movies that a person can watch about Christmas. I probably have seen almost all Christmas movies, from the old but good ones to newer ones, to the classics and the not-so classics. I have watched many. I love a good romantic movie, but nothing I find brings out romance best than a Christmas movie. I love how two people can be brought together by the magic of this season. I enjoy watching the journey that the two people go through that makes them end up with each other. Movies are a great way of seeing a romance story…

  • Christmas cards

    What is more fun than looking at all the Christmas cards, especially the romantic ones? They vary from deep love to friendship kind of love. But they are so beautiful to read. One of my simple pleasures I take out of life is going to the holiday card section and reading the love Christmas cards. I love reading them because they make me feel so hopeful and joyous. And then I get thinking about how someone out there may buy this card and give them to a loved one. I love trying to play a scenario on how the person will receive the card in my head.  Christmas cards can…

  • Christmas 2021

    As plans are being made for Christmas, I have come across many people who want to go back to how things were, to the old traditions. I have nothing against that. I love old traditions. But I find that after the year we had, it’s time to think a bit different when it comes to, well, about anything, which means about Christmas too. I mean, I love Christmas, all of it, but I find that Christmas is not just about old traditions but also about founding new traditions.  At my home, every year, I do some traditional things, like putting candy canes on my tree for my kids to steal…

  • Christmas time

    As we start the month of December and Christmas is coming, everyone is rushing to get decorations, presents, and food done for Christmas. And I am just as much a culprit in this seasonal behavior. But I love Christmas. It is my most favorite time of year. It is also one of the most romantic times of the year. And I know some people will say it’s not, but nothing can be more romantic than Christmas time for me. The movies, the fireplaces, the curling up with a loved one sipping hot chocolate, what could be better.  Christmas time is a time for joy and happiness. It is a time…

  • Upcoming book

    I have an upcoming book, and it is a Christmas romance. It deals with a woman who has been through so much and who, at a young age, took in her half-siblings to raise them as her own. She has been through so much and does not believe that she can have love in her life. Yet love finds her. I love this book because it is all about love at Christmas, one of the most romantic times of the year. I hope people read my book and enjoy it.

  • Person-centered or pleasure centered

    When it comes to love, how you approach the other person tells a lot to you, whether it is love or lust. Love is all about the other person. Therefore person-centered is what makes them happy. However, lust is all about pleasure. Therefore pleasure-centered is what makes me happy. The easiest way of seeing this is looking at what the person is doing, whether or not they are doing things to make their partner happy or themselves happy. This does not mean that a person cannot focus on what makes them happy, but they will do their best to make their partner happy. This is love. Because love makes you…

  • Temporary or forever

    True love never really dies. It can be put aside, it can be let go of, and it can be one-directional. But it doesn’t fully ever die, and love is forever. As lust is temporary, lust can come and go as fast or slow as it pleasures to do. This can create difficulties in love and lust, for how do we know if it’s a long-term lust or a love that had to be let go? The difference is that love will stay within each person even if that person was not meant for us. We cannot stop caring about the person. It is not in our nature to do…

  • Sexual object

    Oftentimes love, and lust can be hard to define. Yet, one straightforward way to see a difference is to look at how your partner treats you. Are you their sexual object? This is a case that people tend not to realize. What does this mean, being a sexual object? It means that something or someone is looked at as a method of sexual intent from a person. This means to me that your partner sees you as a sex thing. However, this can result in small forms, such as them seeing you as fulfilling their needs only. This is what lust is all about, self-gratification. As for love, your partner…