In life, when in a relationship, we all go through stages. Sometimes we will fight with our partner and sometimes we are over the moon and sometimes it seems as if nothing is there. People tend to forget that when times feel as if you have no feelings for your partner, it is not the time to leave your partner. When we are finding it hard to love our partner this is when true love can emerge, where your relationship can see if it’s meant to be. For if you run and leave every time you feel as if there is nothing there, you will never know if a different…

People these days are always looking for a better or newer car, but a better house, job, career, for newer clothes or material things. People are looking at what is better even in relationships.   I think it is a sad thing for a person to always be looking for what may be better instead of looking at what they have. And many times when we are always looking for something new or better we tend to lose out on some great things because we don’t enjoy what we have because we are always looking. The grass is not always better on the other side, sometimes it is different but not…

No one is perfect. Sometimes people forget that. Especially men. I hear it all the time, a man thinks he needs to be perfect in order to win a woman’s heart. But the truth of the matter is, this is not what good women want. What a good woman wants is for the man to be there, listen and love them always. Just at the beginning of the relationship, but throughout the relationship. When times are tough and there is strain on the relationship, all a good woman wants is to be heard and to feel loved. Nothing else matters in the end.

Sometimes I wonder how a person can find a little bit of heaven here on earth. And then I think of my loved ones, the people I care most about. I think of the times, both good and bad, and it makes me realize how lucky I am. But one thing that I do find is that when you are with your partner, your love of your life, when you are just lying there in their arms sleeping, that is heaven on earth. That feeling of security of caring, when you have your person beside you. No talking, no electronics, no distractions, just you and your partner in each other’s…

Life happens. People argue that people have fun, people have sad times and bad times, and good times. There is a whole world of chaos and trouble. You can have financial issues or relationship issues. There can be a lack of communication or a lack of listening. Life has always had unexpected things happen to you, your family or friends, and even in relationships. In life, people change, for good or for the bad. People go through stages, and they learn and grow. Or sometimes people change more negatively, like become more sad or mad at life. Life provides us with stages that can make us change and have different…

I know I’ve discussed this before, but I believe it’s worth revisiting. Intimacy is essential for deepening a relationship and connecting two people. Intimacy is not how you touch your partner physically, but how you connect emotionally and mentally with your partner. It is how you make the other feel safe to share anything that is on their mind. It is a touching of souls to a point that even if you are far apart from one another, you still feel their presence and comfort around. Now that is the intimacy that we should all look for in any couple.

In this chaotic world, with so much noise and conflict, one thing that is important is that when you return home to your love ones that you have a certain amount of safety. And it is not just physical safety that is important, but emotional safety.  What is emotional safety? This is when you have a safe place to tell your partner how you feel. When there is no judgement or criticism or even degradation of how you feel. This is an important part of any relationship, and it is a key to a good relationship. For when u cannot express how you feel then you do not have a…

Sometimes I wonder what has happened to men. You read history, and men have always fought for the woman they want. But now they seem to think that women are disposable or that the woman they want can do better. What happened to being better for the one you love, or is it love that is missing for this to be done?  I believe in being your best self. I believe that when you love someone, you don’t want to hurt them and want to be better for them. This is what love is about. It is how you love your children or how you love your siblings. It is…

I find that many people talk about confidence and that we should feel confident in everything we do. I will not say that this is not true, for confidence allows us to do things with a better state of mind and is one way to attract a partner, because we all love confidence. Confidence can give you the guts to do what is right for yourself and push yourself to do things for the betterment of you or your relationship.  However, confidence can also hinder you in some ways. If you have too much confidence, you can start to get an ego, which can devalue your partner. Confidence can turn…

In a relationship, feelings can take control over many things, and one is what should and shouldn’t be in a relationship. Your feelings of love or lust can overpower your thoughts and opinions. However, your feelings can also be quite telling about what is going on in the relationship. Such as you should feel comfortable talking to your partner about anything without feeling judged or ridiculed. Both people in a relationship should feel they can speak up when they need to and even encourage each other to speak about any subjects. One thing I do know is that communication is very important in a relationship, and if you feel you…