Feelings In a Relationship

In a relationship, feelings can take control over many things, and one is what should and shouldn’t be in a relationship. Your feelings of love or lust can overpower your thoughts and opinions. However, your feelings can also be quite telling about what is going on in the relationship. Such as you should feel comfortable talking to your partner about anything without feeling judged or ridiculed. Both people in a relationship should feel they can speak up when they need to and even encourage each other to speak about any subjects. One thing I do know is that communication is very important in a relationship, and if you feel you cannot communicate about any subject, that can become a problem.

Especially when you feel wronged by your partner or that you feel that something needs to be worked on, this is when you should feel safe enough to talk to your partner and not feel as if what you say has no value. Feelings are important because, as much as they can be a hindrance, they can also be quite telling about a situation. So listen to how you feel in every situation and never think that how you feel has no value. You may need to dissect your feelings a little to understand why you feel whatever way, but your feelings are valid, so always pay attention to them. 

Sorry for missing last week’s blog, I had a medical emergency.