I find that many people talk about confidence and that we should feel confident in everything we do. I will not say that this is not true, for confidence allows us to do things with a better state of mind and is one way to attract a partner, because we all love confidence. Confidence can give you the guts to do what is right for yourself and push yourself to do things for the betterment of you or your relationship.  However, confidence can also hinder you in some ways. If you have too much confidence, you can start to get an ego, which can devalue your partner. Confidence can turn…

In a relationship, feelings can take control over many things, and one is what should and shouldn’t be in a relationship. Your feelings of love or lust can overpower your thoughts and opinions. However, your feelings can also be quite telling about what is going on in the relationship. Such as you should feel comfortable talking to your partner about anything without feeling judged or ridiculed. Both people in a relationship should feel they can speak up when they need to and even encourage each other to speak about any subjects. One thing I do know is that communication is very important in a relationship, and if you feel you…

It can be hard to deal with the concept that no one lives forever. Even those we love do not. Death is very much a part of life. Which is why we need to live life. And when it comes to love, we should show our love always to all those that we care for because you never know when their time is up. It is important to spend time and be with those you love. For material things, work and games will always be there, but someone you love, you never know. So take the time for those you love. Find new ways to show them you love them…

In today’s world, knowing if you have love is hard. It is hard to know how to act rightfully when you love someone. However, there are some key factors when there is love present in a relationship.  One key factor is respect. A person who truly loves you respects you, respects your opinions, respects your boundaries, and respects you as a person. This does not mean they need to agree with you, but they can respect the fact that you think differently and feel differently. This is an important part of love. Another key factor is that they want to hear what you have to say, whether you are venting…

In relationships, it can be hard to know when it is a good time to talk, when it’s a good time to listen, and when it is time for being together or apart. There are many times we are in this concept of knowing when to do or say something and when not to. But it is essential to know the time for such things. In a relationship, like in life, there is a balance. With this balance, you need to learn how to communicate, listen, and know when it is a key factor in a good relationship. It is not about knowing when not to speak your mind or…

I have just released my new book. I am glad that after so long, I could publish a new romance novel. This book is the second in a series of foolish love. I hope you enjoy this book as much as I enjoyed writing it. On a side note. I want to apologize for not writing a blog last week. I am sure everyone has been there where life takes hold, and it is hard to find the time to do even the little things in life. But that is what makes life so fun. The ups and downs in every aspect of your life give you a reason to…

When we see this word intimacy, we do not always think of what it truly is. We think of being physical with another, whether it be holding hands or touching, or more. But what is intimacy? This concept is not what you would normally think it is. It is much more than just the physical, it is the deep connection that two people have. The feelings of closeness and trusting the person. It is in how we open up to our partner. Intimacy is important for any kind of relationship. There are different levels of intimacy, however, the one that you have with a partner is the most special because…

In life we all wear masks. We pretend to be certain ways when at work, when with family, even sometimes when out. But when you are with a partner, we should never pretend. I know that many people do. They show the best side of themselves fearing that if the person knew who they were truly, they would be rejected. However, in the end our true selves will always come out and where does that leave us in a relationship? Life is full of surprises, but being who we are and being accepted on our true selves is an important part of life. We need to not wear masks or…

 What is being faithful? We all have a definition to what we deem is being faithful. I say that it is more than just cheating. For it comes down to how your heart is. A person can be faithful from the outside, meaning they may never cheat physically on their partner. But there are many different ways that a person can be unfaithful more than just the physical. One that comes to mind is mental. How we think and where our mind goes, can also be seen as being unfaithful. There is also emotional faithfulness, which means that we have respect for each other. Faithfulness is not only avoiding situations…

Love is all about being the best you can be. This is important in a relationship. We all make mistakes and do things that hurt our partner, but it is the fact that we amend and try to be better that shows that we love our partner. Love is nothing without action. Action allows for trust to build between to people. This may be a lot of work, but any good relationship is work. Without work, you cannot have any good relationship. So go talk to your partner, see how you can be a better you. This does not mean taking bad advice, but if the person truly loves you,…