People often think that their partner should value them. And I am not saying that they should not, but I happen to see this from a different perspective. Yes, we should all hold value in those we care for, but the most important value in a relationship is your self-value. I am not talking about being selfish or only thinking about yourself. I am talking about holding yourself as a value. You need to remember that you are someone special, you are the only you on this earth. And when we hold ourselves as having value, then those around us will also see this and hold a certain value on…

“If not for you, my sky would fall. Rain would gather, too. Without your love, I’d be nowhere at all. I’d be lost, if not for you.”. Bob dylan Valentine’s Day is drawing near, and it is a time to wish those you love a special note or show them how much you care. As much as it’s a great time to show your partner how much you love them, it is also a wonderful reminder that we should show those we care about our appreciation for them being in our lives.  Showing your partner your love should be every day of the year. However, Valentine’s Day allows us to…

Good sex is not a bad thing. However, we also need to remember that good sex can lead to pushing aside red flags. This is where we need to be careful when we are in a relationship that has good sex. There are no issues with being in a relationship that has good sex. Just it can cloud our vision of what is actually going on in the relationship. I know some people will say that it is never a good idea to stay in a relationship that has good sex. I say we can stay in the relationship as long as we keep our eyes open to what is…

When we need to deal with a hard conversation, we need to not fear it but think about how we approach it. A hard conversation is not a bad thing. It is a bridge between two people to get them closer. However, many people think that a hard conversation can lead to conflicts ct. But trying to have a hard conversation in the right way can make things easier. Try talking in a less attacking way, like starting with the intention for the conversation being a connection with the person, which can help soften the conversation. Always focus on the actions that happened and not the individual. This can help…

“Take chances, make mistakes. That’s how you grow. Pain nourishes your courage. You have to fail in order to practice being brave.” Mary Tyler Moore Often in life, we praise bravery as a huge amount of strength without fear. Yet this is not the truth about what bravery is. It is not in NOT feeling fear that we are brave, but in the actions we do despite the fear we have. And in love, being brave and fearful go hand in hand. It takes a lot of courage to keep looking when we have been hurt or to stay vulnerable with our partner when we don’t want to, or to…

We all deserve a partner who is loyal and kind. But the best part of having someone on your side is the fun you have with them. We need a partner who can make us laugh and happy, a person who will continue to flirt with us. The little things that you can enjoy together are what make living life with a partner fun and enjoyable. One thing that is also important is having our partner there when the days are rough. Because anyone can be there when things are happy and fun, but it takes a strong person who truly loves you to stick it out in the hard…

Hello everyone. I hope everyone had a great holiday and that we are all ready to have a great year. With a new year comes new challenges, but these challenges also mean new opportunities. I hope everyone takes these new opportunities and makes the most of them. “Approach the New Year with resolve to find the opportunities hidden in each new day.” – Michael Josephson

“The best of all gifts around any Christmas tree: the presence of a happy family all wrapped up in each other.” – Burton Hills.  It’s that time of year again, time to spread joy and happiness with all those around us. With all that happens in our lives, it helps to have something to look forward to, such as Christmas and spending time with our loved ones. The next two weeks I will be off for a vacation. I will try to post for New Year’s. I hope everyone has a very merry Christmas this year, and Happy holidays.

It is the time of year when we place the joyous music of Christmas. I love Christmas music because it’s full of love and joy. Listening to this music makes you want to dance, sway, or even smile. Songs like the classics and all the new songs, we should enjoy it fully. Whether you like rap, pop, rock, or country, there is a Christmas song for you. They come in all kinds of styles. One thing I love about Christmas music, no matter who you are, you can find something to love and listen to, too. I have a few favorites that I listen to every year. Music helps set…

One of the many things I enjoy doing during the Christmas season is attending as many Christmas markets as possible. I enjoy walking around and seeing all the interesting ideas that people have created to sell for Christmas fun. It can also be a very romantic place to share with your partner. Walking outside in the chilly air at night, while the lights and beautiful decorations that decorate the place can be amazing. And after you warm up with a cup of apple cider or hot chocolate, there is nothing better than sharing this with loved ones. So enjoy this season and go check out your local Christmas markets. It…