• Forgiveness

    When is it ok to not forgive? Well in my mind it is never ok but I also have this romantic idea that when a partner does something wrong they will come to the other and beg for forgiveness.  Yet this is not reality. People do not always ask for forgiveness or even say sorry anymore when they have done something wrong. Instead many of us blame our wrongs on someone or something else. But I would still say to forgive even when no one else knows that you have because it makes you into a better person and you will grow as a person.  But forgiveness also does not…

  • Take my breath away

    First, I would like to apologize for the past couple of weeks I have not posted a blog. Not because I did not want to but because I had computer issues. Because of this, I have not posted. Now I am back and will continue to post my blogs on Mondays, although it will be on Monday night instead of in the morning. So, I hope that you keep enjoying all that I write.  Have you ever had that feeling where when you meet someone, they take your breath away? I cannot say that I have experienced that feeling but I do know that in the romance world, we use…

  • Life

    Life is full of good moments and bad, we will always come across both. What is important is not the good and bad moments but how we act in those moments. Life is too short to live in negativity, so looking at each moment with a positive view is important.  And with love, this is always a key component.  We can enjoy those around us and see the love in each situation, or we can think of only the bad, or what is annoying or frustrating us. In the end your perspective on each moment makes or breaks the moment. So think about the positive, think about what’s important.  Don’t…

  • Love

    Sometimes I wonder about life. Life can be many things, both good and bad but what gives us a reason to keep pushing and growing and living? It all comes down to one thing, love. Love is what makes us wake up in the morning, work or play. Love is what makes us fight and argue or laugh and rejoice. Love is what makes us have a reason to keep going. There is so much that life offers but the best part is that of love. Whether it be love from family or friends, or a very special person. Love is always present and always a purpose. Love is what…

  • It’s Cold Outside

    This past week it has been really cold outside. So cold that I have no desire to leave the house. It is a soup kind of cold where you need it to help you warm up. Even with it being so cold, there are still some good times that you can have and one in particular. It is snuggling season. I cannot help but have a love-hate relationship with the cold. Although it becomes tough to go out and have fun, I still can stay in with something hot and watch movies, snuggling up to the person you love. There is no better moment than just being with your partner…

  • Time

    I took a couple weeks off for the holidays but now I am back. It was a great time spent with family and friends. I hope everyone had a great holiday time as well. I find that living life is such an important thing for everyone to do. We need time with family and friends and loved ones. I think for this new year, I want everyone out there to understand that time is our most valuable thing we have. It is the only thing on this earth that is limited so use your time wisely. Don’t spend your time always doing things and pushing things for a later date.…

  • Christmas

    Christmas is right around the corner and it has me thinking about romance and being in a relationship. This time of year can be fun and magical, yet for some it is lonely and sad. I have thought about it a lot lately. How much it can hurt to break up with someone you love this time of year but it happens. And as much as we all get sad, we still need to pick ourselves up and remember that we all have loved ones around us. Maybe they are family, maybe they are friends, but life has always given us some unexpected people to care for and share our…

  • Christmas Markets

    There is something to say for this season that makes going to the market just a bit more fun. I love going to Christmas markets, and I have enjoyed this year so far about three. Each one has different things to enjoy and different ideas to show. There is so much you can enjoy going to a Christmas market. I know that some will say there are just too many people and too many expensive things. But I say it is not about buying or the amount of people. It is about getting into a Christmas mood and seeing all the cool ideas that can bring you. My favourite kinds…

  • Snow

    Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow. How I love the snow at Christmastime. I will say it is the only time during the year that I love to have snow. Once the holidays are over, it could pack up and go (although that is not the case). However, snow makes Christmas more magical. The lights look more twinkly when there is snow, and a romantic walk outside with lights all around is much more romantic when there is snow. It makes Christmas time cheerier and fun. I know that cold weather is not for everyone, not even me, but I love the magic that comes during this…

  • Lights

    I love Christmas lights. I have finally put my lights up outside for Christmas. I love the way the lights look at night as I stroll by. It gives such a warm feeling even when it is cold outside. Although I am still waiting on the snow to walk around looking at the lights, I still think lights are some of the best parts of Christmas. It even has a romantic side when the snow has fallen, and the lights glisten against the snow. It can be said to have a magical feel. I just love that kind of Christmas magic. I think that the mixture of lights and snow…