My book Christmas Angel has been re-released, and the new version is ready to be purchased on Amazon now. I’m sorry for my absence last week. I was on vacation.

With everyone getting ready to dress up and go to parties or trick or treat with their kids, it makes me think about the olden days and masked balls, how romance can even appear in a place where no one knows who you are, how two people can find a connection and not even know each other. It is fun to see how someone can find a partner in life without even seeing them at first. This is not something we see all too often anymore. However, it is something to think about. Just imagine, finding your true love without seeing who they are. It is an interesting concept and…

Appreciate the little things in life, for we only have one life. We need to learn that it is okay to be busy, it’s okay to have fun, but appreciate every moment you are here. We need to look at bad situations as learning experiences and challenges. See the world as full of possibilities. We need to watch out for those we care about and spend time with all who you care about. Time is precious and we only have so much. So see the little things in life, the good grades your kids have to the coffee you bought yourself on the way to work. We do not need…

Autumn teaches us the beauty of letting go. Growth requires release—it’s what the trees do.” Ka’ala As the trees change, we see how much life can be an ever-changing thing. Life is all about change. We learn and grow for ourselves and within relationships. It is time to see how life needs to change. As the trees get ready for winter, we are also needing to get ready for the next step in life. So like the rees, we need to learn and grow, we need to let go of the old and move into something new. We need to see where is our lives change is needed and become…

Fall has arrived, and what a great season it is. Well, it’s my favorite season because with the chill in the air and the trees changing color, it is perfect for adding a little romance to your relationship. One thing I love doing in the fall is going on walks. Holding hands with your partner, seeing all the beauty that is outside, makes the romance come alive. And what better than being outside than coming in to a warm cup of hot coffee or tea, snuggling with your partner, sharing the moment. Talking and sitting with each other is a wonderful way to enjoy each other and grow in the…

Being in a relationship can be frustrating. People disagree and fight, and it can cause a person to become angry and yell. But yelling only makes things worse, makes people defensive. It is always better to remain calm and not yell. This can be hard, but is important for your relationship. Both partners need to learn how to communicate with each other and not yell at each other. Yelling is a toxic way of handling things. However, the healthy way is to remain calm and talk things out. So if you value your relationship and want you and your partner to grow together and not a part, then good communication…

There is something to be said for being in silence. Having a quiet moment is vital for everyone. No, you won’t die if you don’t get a moment. However, I say it’s critical because it gives us time to ourselves to think, to rest our minds, to give ourselves time. This is crucial for maintaining a healthy mental state. And when we have a good mental state, we can be a better person to our partner. This can be what makes or breaks your relationship because when we cannot find time to clear our minds, we may make mistakes or do things that we can regret. In a relationship, it…

I am so excited that fall is on its way. In my opinion, it is truly the best time of year. Where the chilly air starts and the leaves start changing color, it is so beautiful. And of course, the start of all the fall flavors and spices in the air. This year, I plan to go out into the country, for that is the best place to experience the beauty of fall. But even if you cannot leave the city, enjoy the crisp air, enjoy the fall flavors, and enjoy the wonders of fall that are to come your way.  Happy fall, everyone.

I have seen many couples in my lifetime and one thing I find remarkable is that some make it to old age. It is a beautiful thing to see a couple being together for so long. It is something we should strive for. In a world that is so throw away or we can get something better, we fail to realize the value in keeping what we have or wanting to enjoy what we have. We have become a society that even relationships are disposable and they should not. So when you are thinking that the grass is greener on the other side, take a look at an old couple…

Strong love comes with time and with building. You must cultivate the love you have for it to grow and be something unstoppable. I think of my grandparents how they have been with each other for over 60 years and even through hardships and problems within the couple they keep going and still show their love by how much they are always there for each other and looking out for each other. This means to me that love grows, when you are in a relationship you need to let your love between each other grow. You do not bail when things get tough, when there are issues you need to…