Blogs 2023

  • That Famous Old Saying

    “Actions speak louder than words.” Many people use that famous old saying to see how someone feels about them. It is a policy that can help when dealing with love. I think it can only help if we truly see what another person does for us and what we do for them. This famous saying makes me think of love languages. How we show love and how we want to receive it differs per person. So yes, actions may speak louder than words, yet sometimes words have more meanings than actions.  I think it depends on the scenario. If you are a person who likes to see the actions of…

  •  Love and Fear

    “Give in to love, or live in fear.” – Rent Love is sometimes challenging. Because of our experiences, we can put up walls and fear being in a relationship with someone else. This encourages us to make more mistakes and tends to cause breakups. This often happens when a person suffers from a broken relationship and does not heal properly. Healing is needed when a person wants love in their life. Because without healing, love cannot thrive, which instead creates fear. I do believe in facing my fears and giving in to love. No matter how hard it can be. It will not always be easy to give in to…

  • Commitment and Fear

    Why is the word commitment a word that people fear? Why do we run? I have found that recently that people are often running from that word. They wish to dip their toes but not fully go head in. and why are they? Because fear is a huge factor in relationships. We all have them. We all fear something will happen. And these fears drive us either through something or away from something. And yes, sometimes our fears help us, but sometimes these fears hinder us. Fears can hold us back and make us lose. In many ways, I think this happens all too often. People allow their fears to…

  • Love is a Battlefield?

    Why is love so hard? As this iconic song suggests, love is hard. But is it really? I was recently asked if I got butterflies in my stomach or goosebumps when in love or around a specific person. I had to tell them no because that is not love, not to me. It is only what people suggest is love in movies and books. And yes, we can have these emotions before and fall in love with the person. But love is not a moment shared between two people. No, I believe love is moments [ plural ] shared between two people, which creates a stronger bond between the two…

  • It’s the New Year

    It is 2023 now, and we are off to a new year. Makes me wonder about our wishes and dreams for the following year. I have made some for this next year, as I am sure many of you have too. A new year can bring new beginnings and further the good things in life. Now how does this work with love and relationships? Well, a new year means you can start anew in a relationship or maybe even start going out and see what is out there for you. A new year can also mean making deeper connections with those you love. Finding a sweet spot in your relationship…