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  • Love worth it?

    What about love makes love worth having? Giving our hearts away can lead to them being broken. So why do it? This is something that I think everyone asks themselves at some point in their life. Love can be hard. It is never an easy thing. If love is easy for you, then it is not true love. I say this because we all have our own opinions, and we will have arguments. But when we love someone, these arguments become a mode for conversations, and we decide to change or grow as people because we love our partner enough to want to evolve. But this does not mean you…

  • Is Love Important?

    I have been asked once what is the point of love if you always have heartbreak afterward. Well, I think love is an important part of life and gives us meaning and enjoyment.  Heartbreak is only one side effect of love. It does not always happen, but to most people, if not all people, we all have suffered through a heartbreak. But what makes the difference is how we deal with the heartbreak. How we deal affects our process and our life. I can get into different ways to deal with heartbreak in another blog. What I want to tackle today is why love? Well, love is vital to our…

  • Hit by Love

    “There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a heartbeat, in a single flashing, throbbing moment.” – Sarah Dessen One thing that I use a lot in my writing is that love can come out of nowhere and hit the character like a ton of bricks. This makes writing romance so fun because you can see how fast love can come to two characters as a writer or reader. It happens out of the blue and often is not looked for. In a world where we force love by meeting online and then in-person to see if there is chemistry, what we do not…

  • Summer is coming

    Now the weather is getting warmer, and people are prone to go outside. Summer is coming our way. Vacations will be taken, and in all this activity, we must remember that love can still be in the air. I do not think that any season lacks love or romance. We need to look and find it no matter where we are or what season we are in. but summer means outdoor activities, and what is not more romantic than a nice cozy picnic outside with someone we love or a boat ride for two? I believe that summer is an excellent time for romance because of everything we can do…

  • Happy reading

    Someone once told me romance novels are too basic. They all end the same way, making them predictable and somewhat dull. I say this is where the person is reading wrong. I know that I do not read romance novels or even write romance novels with the idea of it being basic because I know the two people in love will end up together at the end of the book. We all know that will happen. No, why we read is for the journey. The journey is the most critical part of a romance novel and is what makes the book. It is the journey that makes romance novels fun…

  • Romantic Love

    Now, this is what I am all about, what I write about. Romantic love. Now I find that this comes in two ways. You have lasting romantic love and fleeing romantic love. That does not say that there is no romantic love connection, even if that connection is temporary. This is fleeing romantic love. It is where you have a romantic connection with someone for a certain amount of time. Perhaps you part ways, but the love you have for that person stays with you. And lasting romantic love, well, is the kind of romance that lasts a lifetime. That is what I like to write about. Romantic love does…

  • Soulmate

    So why is this in a category all by itself? Well, because how I see soulmates is different than romantic love. Soulmates is a once-in-a-lifetime deal. And not many meet their soulmates, and many do not even realize it if they do. However, romantic love can be temporary. Soulmate love is forever once you find it. I think that is why so many do not find it because our lives are such a fast pace, and people can jump from one romantic love relationship to the next, soulmates tend not to happen, or I have not seen it. But it can happen. There is that one person out there that…

  • Self-Love

    One of the essential kinds of love out there is self-love. Why is this important? Because without the base of self-love, all other loves can’t truly exist. What do I mean by this? Self-love is our guide to how we love others in all other forms. So if we have poor self-love, we have poor other forms of love. Loving yourself is the secret to the greatest love of all. It is where love starts and can grow into family love, romantic love, and loving others. It is the foundation to love. How we see ourselves is how we see others. How we treat ourselves is how we treat others.…

  • Family love

    This is the kind of love that a mother has for her daughter or how there is love between siblings. Love for the family can be one-directional, which is sad but happens. But the best is when the love is shared between each family member. When there is love between family members, it means that no matter what, they are there for you. It is the kind of love that endures a great deal, but there is not much that can bring it back once it is severed. The love that is family love is strong but not unbeatable.  I find it is one of the strongest kinds of love…

  • Newest Book

    I have a new book that is out. It is called the long journey home. You can buy it on Amazon. I love how this book came out. I hope everyone enjoys it as much as I enjoyed writing it. Here is a little excerpt from the book: Unexpectedly, Jessica saw blue, white, and red lights flashing behind her. Sighing, she pulled over and stopped. She had not thought a cop would be out this late. She hoped it was not someone she was acquainted with, for she did not want anyone to know she was in town yet. She was not ready for confrontations. She was not prepared for…