When we need to deal with a hard conversation, we need to not fear it but think about how we approach it. A hard conversation is not a bad thing. It is a bridge between two people to get them closer. However, many people think that a hard conversation can lead to conflicts ct. But trying to have a hard conversation in the right way can make things easier. Try talking in a less attacking way, like starting with the intention for the conversation being a connection with the person, which can help soften the conversation. Always focus on the actions that happened and not the individual. This can help…

“Take chances, make mistakes. That’s how you grow. Pain nourishes your courage. You have to fail in order to practice being brave.” Mary Tyler Moore Often in life, we praise bravery as a huge amount of strength without fear. Yet this is not the truth about what bravery is. It is not in NOT feeling fear that we are brave, but in the actions we do despite the fear we have. And in love, being brave and fearful go hand in hand. It takes a lot of courage to keep looking when we have been hurt or to stay vulnerable with our partner when we don’t want to, or to…

We all deserve a partner who is loyal and kind. But the best part of having someone on your side is the fun you have with them. We need a partner who can make us laugh and happy, a person who will continue to flirt with us. The little things that you can enjoy together are what make living life with a partner fun and enjoyable. One thing that is also important is having our partner there when the days are rough. Because anyone can be there when things are happy and fun, but it takes a strong person who truly loves you to stick it out in the hard…

Hello everyone. I hope everyone had a great holiday and that we are all ready to have a great year. With a new year comes new challenges, but these challenges also mean new opportunities. I hope everyone takes these new opportunities and makes the most of them. “Approach the New Year with resolve to find the opportunities hidden in each new day.” – Michael Josephson

“The best of all gifts around any Christmas tree: the presence of a happy family all wrapped up in each other.” – Burton Hills.  It’s that time of year again, time to spread joy and happiness with all those around us. With all that happens in our lives, it helps to have something to look forward to, such as Christmas and spending time with our loved ones. The next two weeks I will be off for a vacation. I will try to post for New Year’s. I hope everyone has a very merry Christmas this year, and Happy holidays.

It is the time of year when we place the joyous music of Christmas. I love Christmas music because it’s full of love and joy. Listening to this music makes you want to dance, sway, or even smile. Songs like the classics and all the new songs, we should enjoy it fully. Whether you like rap, pop, rock, or country, there is a Christmas song for you. They come in all kinds of styles. One thing I love about Christmas music, no matter who you are, you can find something to love and listen to, too. I have a few favorites that I listen to every year. Music helps set…

One of the many things I enjoy doing during the Christmas season is attending as many Christmas markets as possible. I enjoy walking around and seeing all the interesting ideas that people have created to sell for Christmas fun. It can also be a very romantic place to share with your partner. Walking outside in the chilly air at night, while the lights and beautiful decorations that decorate the place can be amazing. And after you warm up with a cup of apple cider or hot chocolate, there is nothing better than sharing this with loved ones. So enjoy this season and go check out your local Christmas markets. It…

The snow is falling, and there is a light coat on the ground. I can see the slow, cold flakes falling from the sky. How lovely it looks. Makes me think of this time of year, the Christmas season, and there is no more perfect way to start than with a little snow. It creates magic at Christmas. Although many things create magic at Christmas, for me, a light snowfall is one. I love the feeling and the beauty of the snowflakes falling from the sky. The coldness and the quietness. It is a beauty that we should enjoy. And then you add Christmas lights, and how the lights reflect…

I often ponder this question. Many people ponder this question without ever getting an answer. Life is full of questions and surprises, and it is not something we can completely define. Yet there are some things that do make life so much more meaningful. Life is not the amount of money or stuff you have. It is not about your looks or being with famous, good-looking people. It is not about being famous. It is not about being the best or accomplishing a bucket list. It is not about having the highest education or all the awards. Life is not about material things.  On the other hand, life is the…

They say we are a reflection of our choices, and I say this has a ring of truth. Everything we do and say, every choice we make, builds us and makes us who we are. People can say that they were raised this or that way. However, it is your choice to keep that as an excuse and stay like that. In a relationship, this is very true. How we react defines how the relationship goes. So our choices, whether to react or not, have consequences on the relationship, good and bad. We should never stop ourselves from discussing how we feel with our partner. But how we approach the…