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Not Pretending

In life we all wear masks. We pretend to be certain ways when at work, when with family, even sometimes when out. But when you are with a partner, we should never pretend. I know that many people do. They show the best side of themselves fearing that if the person knew who they were truly, they would be rejected. However, in the end our true selves will always come out and where does that leave us in a relationship? Life is full of surprises, but being who we are and being accepted on our true selves is an important part of life. We need to not wear masks or pretend to be someone who we are not. We should be our best selves all the time and never pretend to be someone we are not. Relationships are much better when we are the raw true of who we are. And I say just show me who you are, that is what is most important. And in the end, there is someone for everyone, so be who you are, be the best you can be, but do not pretend to be something you are not.