Value in a Relationship

People often think that their partner should value them. And I am not saying that they should not, but I happen to see this from a different perspective. Yes, we should all hold value in those we care for, but the most important value in a relationship is your self-value. I am not talking about being selfish or only thinking about yourself. I am talking about holding yourself as a value. You need to remember that you are someone special, you are the only you on this earth. And when we hold ourselves as having value, then those around us will also see this and hold a certain value on us. It is like a reflection. If you value yourself, others will reflect this behavior towards you. If you don’t hold yourself in value, chances are others won’t see value in you either. We are a reflection of our thoughts, so start seeing yourself as of value. Because we are all special in our own little way.