Reflection

They say we are a reflection of our choices, and I say this has a ring of truth. Everything we do and say, every choice we make, builds us and makes us who we are. People can say that they were raised this or that way. However, it is your choice to keep that as an excuse and stay like that. In a relationship, this is very true. How we react defines how the relationship goes. So our choices, whether to react or not, have consequences on the relationship, good and bad. We should never stop ourselves from discussing how we feel with our partner. But how we approach the person makes a difference in how they respond. Our choice to yell and scream will have consequences, if we talk calmly will have consequences, and if we don’t talk at all will have consequences. So our choices are a reflection of how the relationship grows or remains stagnant. So we need to choose wisely on our choices and make sure that we choose the right thing so that our relationship with our partner grows and becomes great.