What Has Happened

Sometimes I wonder what has happened to men. You read history, and men have always fought for the woman they want. But now they seem to think that women are disposable or that the woman they want can do better. What happened to being better for the one you love, or is it love that is missing for this to be done? 

I believe in being your best self. I believe that when you love someone, you don’t want to hurt them and want to be better for them. This is what love is about. It is how you love your children or how you love your siblings. It is not about taking me as I am, it is starting with what I am, and let’s improve each other together. That is true love. Something I find lacking in relationships. Everyone is saying this is how I am, take me as that. Or I should be a better person for you, but they never do. This is not love. 

So listen, men and women out there, be the best self you can be, always improve, and if someone tells you that they should be better, call them on it. Make them see that if they are to be better, then they need to start improving, or maybe it is time to let go.