Hellfire or Holy water

“She is both, hellfire and holy water. And the flavor you taste depends on how you treat her.”

― Sneha Pal

On one hand, you can find a loving and caring partner and then on the other hand you find a hard, screaming, frustrated partner. This comes as no surprise that many people will find their partners in two different moods, the upset mood or the loving mood. However, how did this partner become this way?

I am a firm believer that what you pour into your relationship is what you will acquire in return. If you are coming home to someone upset all the time, that means you need to reevaluate what you are giving into the relationship. If you find your partner always sad, or unhappy, you should reevaluate how you treat your partner.

This is not an exact science. But in many ways, this quote can ring true. A person can treat a person with love and respect and when this happens the other person will return this same. This is how a relationship works. People only put up with so much before they call it quits. So if you truly love your partner, work on things that are the most important thing one can do for a relationship.

At the end of the day, if you truly wish to keep your partner, you must do the work. You cannot expect your partner to do it for you. You need to get up each morning and prioritize your relationship. It starts with how you treat each other because, at the end of the day, we all can be hellfire or angels, but it is how people treat us that makes us reflect the angel or hellfire out.