Checking in

Sometimes it is nice that you take a step back and check in on yourself. Look at everything that has happened what you would like to see happen and steps you can take to go in the direction of what you want out of life.

This concept is also good in relationships. We should take a step back as see how we can do better as a couple and as an individual. This helps promote growth.  Now I know that some people will say that they have nothing they wish to change. The way I see it is that whether you are looking as a couple or as an individual, you can always improve and be a better version for yourself and those you love around you.

We need to really look deep down and see the areas that we can work on, whether it is something small or something big, that does not matter. The fact that we are trying to be our best selves is what matters.

And in a relationship, this really matter because no one wants to hurt someone they love, so growing and being a better version of you can make a difference. It also helps when in a couple. Because as a couple you can work on the relationship together. It is not pointing fingers that we do this but talking to each other about things we like and things we don’t and showing out appreciation for each other. This way the relationship grows and becomes stronger.

So for all those out there, take a mental and relationship check in. this way you can work on any issues or just make room for more fun.