When Things Go Wrong.

In relationships things can go wrong, fights can happen, however everyone needs somewhere to fall on. We all need a safe space, people we can rely on and this is never so true when in a relationship. Because you will argue and fight with your partner, you will find things that you don’t care for or disagree with but how to sort it out determines if it is a toxic relationship. How to resolve the fight and not go straight to leaving. Relationships can get rocky, however, we need a safe space to talk, to understand, to get a different perspective. When you cannot go to your partner for advice, even if you have the best relationship, you still need friends or family that you can count on who will have you back when it’s needed and tell you the truth when it’s needed. Even if it can be hard, having someone other than your partner is a good thing to have. This way if the fight is silly they will tell you. And if the problem is serious they will let you know. I don’t say this often because sometimes friends and family can be wrong, but if you trust them and you know they only have your best interest at heart, you should always go to them so you can get a different perspective of what may be going on in your relationship. Many people think to leave everyone out of your relationship yet if it is someone you trust sometimes it is good to see a different side than what your emotions may be telling you at the moment.

I am sorry for not posting my blog last week, had a family emergency.