All About the Little Things

Love and romance are great but what makes it so great is not the huge romantic moves or the head-over-heels stuff that can happen, but it is in the little things. Casual intimacy is so very important. Because passion is something that can be fleeting as well as blind us to reality. But when there is love, true love, we have small casual intimate moments with our partner and these moments are very important for the love to grow and be sustained. It is not the passion that makes us stay together. Because when times become tough passion can be thrown out of the window. But the small things we do for each other, holding hands, hugs, or maybe it is something just for the two of you. It does not matter if it is something as small as doing the dishes together or cooking. What matters is in these moments we are getting close to our partner and this becomes important for love to grow and stay between the two people. Because any person can have great passion but not any person can find someone who will stay and just be with them. That takes more time and intimacy between the two people.

So go out and think about what small things you can do with or for your partner. It can be as simple as cuddling on the couch while watching a movie, giving a hug when one is having a bad day or helping out around the house. If you truly love your partner, you want to get closer and small intimacies are the best way to not just get closer together but to grow stronger together so when things are hard, there are fewer issues between the two people.

So enjoy time together and create small moments of intimacy.